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4 Things Awesome Men Need But Can't Express

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ifeoma illoh (16 days ago)
Please start using examples in your videos. I'm addicted to watching them but sometimes I can't translate what you're saying to real life scenerios. So using examples will help.
Butsaba Dusrai (1 month ago)
You have changed the way I behave towards all guys. Lately, I got heartbroken, not expressed enough how much I cared for him and waiting for him to show it. And now I'm learning how to show my interest. I do learn a lot about how to see if someone is the right guy for me...Thank you so much!
Rukshar Khatun (1 month ago)
Wendi Watson (1 month ago)
#1 Own "your" own happiness.. 😀 😏👏
Wake Up (2 months ago)
Lovely soul you are thank you for all your guidance
Bernardo Mendez (2 months ago)
You're so welcome ❤️
reem hasan (2 months ago)
You get to the point. Thank you :)
Bernardo Mendez (2 months ago)
Thank you Reem ❤️
Bomgam Nguba (2 months ago)
Bern sir ur awsome
Bernardo Mendez (2 months ago)
Thank you Bomgam xo
Carru Mpiani (3 months ago)
You are awesome love watching your videos thanks
Diana Feldman (4 months ago)
Bern, I think this is your best video sò far, new information wise, I have never heard of this, however I have experienced the results both good and bad because of not knowing. Actually, I love all your videos but this one was the one I needed to hear. As the saying goes, when the student is ready the teacher will appear? Prefer à teacher rather than a love interest teaching me. Keep up the great work, Bern.
rain (4 months ago)
1. I want to feel seen, a capacity to connect to him from heart. Some full body experience of u being in your full power and not judging him. 2. Show me when I've gone too far - show if you are angry or he is disrespectful ... 3. When you own your happiness, you want him more...act your happiness... Don't be dependent on him for your happiness 4. Your embodiment of gratitude.
Gratitude (4 months ago)
Binge watching your videos. Thank you!
Lauren Osmond (4 months ago)
I enjoy when someone aptly uses the word Fuck. 👍
Bernardo Mendez (4 months ago)
Big hug Lauren, xo
Rima Bensahli (6 months ago)
Tank you bern you make evry day a hyge différence in my hart and my mind tank you a lot
Terri Alotto (7 months ago)
Hello Bern you completely lost me at the beginning of this video. I am learning so much from you. I always look at myself when a relationship doesn’t work. You help me see so much clearer.
Bernardo Mendez (7 months ago)
Happy to hear that Terri : ) <3
amal og (8 months ago)
What i love in your philosophy that it dose feel so right and make sense, in every time i listening to your videos i have profound remembering of my joyful super sexy me , and who really i am is enough for whatever i want ❤️❤️sending love and light, love you man
Judgment Proof (8 months ago)
If he can't express himself then he's not really that awesome, plain and simple. If he can't express himself, he's not worthy of me
Zodiac Wars (9 months ago)
Wow very good advice
Bernardo Mendez (9 months ago)
Glad you benefitted from it thank you.
Leniyems Victorero (9 months ago)
Bern thank you for your videos where I can find high-quality men
Bernardo Mendez (9 months ago)
High-quality men are found in no specific location Leniyems, here's a video on the subject. xo https://youtu.be/0XEZ7itzeFk
MissHannah2036 (10 months ago)
I find what Bern say's sometimes is untangible ... so what do we do for/to/say to the man to know that he is being seen. I have the same thing with guys, I sometimes feel they are looking straight through me. What is that we have to do/say in order to be seen on a deeper level.
Sally M (10 months ago)
WOW.. Best Adviser ever ...I'm learning a lot of things ...Thank you very much :)
Rich As F*ck (11 months ago)
No. 3 is extremely valuable lesson. This isn't about merely finding the man of your life. You must be that first and it will attract the right man to you. This is so inspiring, Bern.
soso alsabahi (11 months ago)
You are awesome....
Allison Marie (11 months ago)
This is my favorite video!
Sierra Goodwin (11 months ago)
You teach us a beautiful deliverance every time!!!! Thank You 😊
Bernardo Mendez (11 months ago)
You're welcome Sierra!
roxanne reitsma (1 year ago)
love your wisdom...fyi you have a typo neded is to be needed
Gloria (1 year ago)
where have u been when I needed you? my marriage was ruined because I didn't have this information?
doAnn88 (1 year ago)
Thank You!
Selena M (1 year ago)
Came across lots of relationship videos and I truly feel I can take your advice and make small changes (rare feeling!!)
Bernardo Mendez (1 year ago)
Happy to hear that.
Laura Croft (1 year ago)
evnomia iw (1 year ago)
You have explained this so wonderfully with such clear understanding. Very educational and true value. Continue in positively educating the world Bernardo!
Simran Heer (1 year ago)
Woooow brilliant video thank u xx👍
Jo M (1 year ago)
I am so engaged in watching you, it's like watching a beautuful performance almost with the amount of passion and positive energy in these videos. I use these videos like empowering meditations and even your swear words sound like poetry! Gratitude to the universe. I can feel your love and thank you Bern. Jo
Betty Kang (8 months ago)
Bernado, you have a beautiful mind. Thanks for caring for women. You are touching womem from all xorners of the world in such an amazing way. May God grant you more wisdom in your passion to teach, admonish foolishness, and to continue speaking the bold truth in love to women worldwide. I send love your way brother.
Khloe Strong (1 year ago)
That's Bern! 💗
Bernardo Mendez (1 year ago)
Thank you Jo, I so appreciate your kind words and big heart. <3
Irene Irene81 (1 year ago)
Hi Bern, thank you for creating all these great videos. They are very helpful and useful for relationship understanding. Have a great day.
Bernardo Mendez (1 year ago)
You're most welcome Irene! xoxo
Meredith H (1 year ago)
I love this one!! How do I believe I am enough, no matter what I can or can't do, no matter what he or anyone thinks, no matter what limitations I have in my looks, etc.?
Bernardo Mendez (1 year ago)
My strongest suggestion is to get help rather than trying to re-invent the wheel <3
Rhy Hunt (1 year ago)
Can u share how it'll work when one is an introvert and another is more outspoken?
Virgi Amaro (1 year ago)
thank u so much bern all ur videos makes me learn more ❤
Bernardo Mendez (1 year ago)
Happy to hear that Virigi!
K Emksa (1 year ago)
love your stuff but I keep finding jerks who are disrespectful, dishonest, and unfaithful and generally note bit little boys. I've given up but open other women can find a decent man
Marine Lucie Laure (1 year ago)
Thank you very much. I am truly grateful for these advices! However, I don't really get the first one, it seems a little abstract to me =/ Would you mind help me to understand it better, please?
try2bcrazy (1 year ago)
You guys need to spend time in France, we don't need no vids to teach us how to live a relationship, or how to express. Just say what you think, be you everything will be fine, ill finish by a famous quote of a great man : "Be you, be proud of you cause we can be do what we want to do" F.Hollande 2015
Dragonfly (1 year ago)
I truly love your videos because they encourage individuality and love and healthy, happy ways of thinking and relationships. ❤ I have feelings for an amazing free spirit, but unfortunately he's not ready so I'm letting him go. I just told him that I understand, because he's a traveller, and I encourage him to do it even though he knows I'd rather be together... and that made him love the way I think more. 😊 I think mostly because I showed him that I don't rely my happiness on him, but that he makes me extra happy. And that I care for his happiness. 😊❤
Bernardo Mendez (1 year ago)
Thank you for your kind words and for honoring your value and worth. Sending you much love! -Bern
ME (2 years ago)
Magnificent advice, Bern :)
Margie Leal (2 years ago)
wow all your video are powerfully and the light of the truth.you change my life 🙏🙏🙏
Alisa Hansford (2 years ago)
Very great tips, thanks a lot. I love that.
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
You're so welcome!
Softfire (2 years ago)
Binge watching your videos..
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
:) xo
EbonyLove Anderson (2 years ago)
you're the best.....
Sharon V (2 years ago)
Love ur videos. Explains stuff i see with other women. my question is: How to find ur soumate if u don't go out much and online hasn't worked out?
Redrose Abd (2 years ago)
feeling seen? I don't understand pls explain again. like what do you mean and how do you express it in example . ? ?
LoveFirstYou (2 years ago)
Redrose Abd Give the man the opportunity to be his full, open self by being your full, open self. Show him yourself so that he can show you himself. Embrace him when he shows you who he is. See him for who he is.
Bernardo Mendes puedes explicarlo en español? I don't understand the expression as well 🙄 Thanks for the good advice!
Nancy Spicer (2 years ago)
I love this stuff. IT is so true!! IT makes me excited. The challenge that I am experiencing now is backing off a bit it is so hard for me. I have marked on my calendar days I can call maybe if I feel it is right. Maybe guidance of spirit help me. Each day gets better. But there is that truth that I have waited all my life for love and to be loved. I don't know what direction it is coming from but I know with out a shadow of a doubt that it is coming soon. maybe this letter will help with the nervous energy.
JM (2 years ago)
can you elaborate the second point. I was confused by your explanation sorry. also , if a guy has gone too far but he is only someone you are considering to date, what do you think is the best approach?
LoveFirstYou (2 years ago)
Jen M Allow a man to see exactly how you are affected by his actions without hiding anything or reacting one way when you really feel another way. Doing so will allow him to know who you truly are and, if he cares enough about you, make positive changes where needed. A man needs to see your disappointment, hurt, etc., and not always and only be told verbally.
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Hi Jen, if you can be more specific I'll give you an answer that makes more sense to you. xo -Bern
It's Kells (2 years ago)
Bern, you must be a Pisces ❤️
dbedazzling1 (1 year ago)
Bernardo Mendez I'm a virgo too. deep intellectual people 😀
Amy P (2 years ago)
I am too.
It's Kells (2 years ago)
+Bernardo Mendez :)
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Hello Kells, no I'm a virgo. :)
Laurie Sinasac (2 years ago)
You're awesome, Bern!!
Yvonne Azevedo (2 years ago)
thanks Bern...you're amazing...
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Thank YOU Yvonne. <3
Petits Soleils (2 years ago)
Just beautiful, Bern! And so true... Thank you for your inspiring insights!
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
You're so welcome xo
Florence Lorfils (2 years ago)
I don't understand #1
Yang Jen (2 years ago)
Thank you Bern! You've always been so insightful and helpful. I appreciate the values you bring to all ladies out there. :))
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Thank you Yang.
Sabrina Tibarovsky (2 years ago)
I like your videos, but sometimes it feels like your explanation is too vague and too generally speaking Would appreciate more specific explanations and examples on future videos 😊
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Hi Sabrina, ask me a specific question and I'll be glad to answer it...
I. Mirghani (2 years ago)
I love your body language, you are soo confident. thank you for you clear advices, I have a question: I'm that kind of girls whos pushing away guys after a time in the relationship, is that mean I'm a bad one?
Svieta Korniyenko (2 years ago)
awesome video, Bern. and now a question, but about marriage relationships: yes, i am responsible 4 my happiness, but if he feels unhappy when i feel unhappy? is it codependence? i can manage my things, but he often feels guilty when i am upset, although i told him not to, but he feels this responsibility to make me happy. it is becoming complicated... thank you, Bern.
Josephine Mlay (2 years ago)
thank you l understand you very well
Master Mystic (2 years ago)
YOU sir, are so helpful to so many. I wish the Greatest joy to you!
liefek (2 years ago)
You look tired Bern your dark circles :(
Maria Cristina (7 months ago)
liefek 😂😂😂 eye bags 🙂🙂🙂 because he always thinks...very intelligent one 🙂
I. Mirghani (2 years ago)
liefek he looks just fine
Sherlie Cajigas (2 years ago)
Beeeeern! thanks. Blessings.
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
You're so welcome. xo
Simsim loves life (2 years ago)
that's sooo beautiful ..I can't get enough :D your amazing Bern
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Thank you so much Samah. <3
Favour Praise (2 years ago)
I love u Bern. thanks so much. I learn a lot from ur videos.
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Big hug!
luulips (2 years ago)
It's interesting that this video came out today because I just told my gentleman friend that I felt disrespected when he didn't acknowledge a couple texts I sent him. I've been practicing how to communicate better with him because I realized that was the biggest problem we were having. I believe its slowly getting better. Very difficult because I'm not accustomed to it myself but I'm willing because he's important to me.
Realladi 228 (1 year ago)
luulips I learned men are better communicators when they initate conversations....try fallen back with this attempt to stay connected its counter productive...it only works when following up with plans or when you are meeting them for a outing Honestly..this method is fail proof 20 years and counting..if they dont connect then move on...if your feelings aren't mutual you dont have anything anyway...women make too many decisions about men based on their own feelings meanwhile the guy is not even on the same page.
brenda dinsdale (2 years ago)
Victoria V aq
luulips (2 years ago)
Victoria V I believe you are right. I'm gonna try harder to tell him what I need in person. I do start to get fearful in person because I'm not accustomed to saying what I'm feeling. I have to learn how.
I M A QYN (2 years ago)
The biggest issue is that you text him, you two should meet and then talk. There couldn't be no relationship through the phone. He will respect you if you respect yourself first.
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Happy you're able to express what you need. xoxo
andrea urbankova (2 years ago)
Bernardo,you naughty boy ;),what do you mean by full body experience? :)
andrea urbankova (2 years ago)
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Haha, I really mean experiencing a person with an open heart. xo
Miansadi Sanchez (2 years ago)
how could I accomplish the first one in a long distance relationship?
Martha Horton (2 years ago)
I think my biggest challenge is expressing my feelings when my boundaries are crossed. That's what a life time of people pleasing does. I love that you always encourage women to embody their true emotions.
Wendi Watson (1 month ago)
+Martha Horton 👏🙄👍🏼
G Schneider (2 years ago)
Martha Horton I agree. I've had to adjust what I have done in the past. I was in an abusive relationship for 13 plus years. I have problems setting boundaries. When my boyfriend goes too far with oversharing and too much information, I walk away from the conversation, if possible. I refuse to sit uncomfortably in my seat, like I'm going to be sick, versus expressing myself. Part of the problem has been that his entire family goes into too much detail about things that I would keep private.
Mindful Attraction 2.0 (2 years ago)
I love this comment. Never thought about taht
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
<3 <3
Ani young (2 years ago)
thanks Bern
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
You're welcome!
Judy Canales (2 years ago)
I did all of this with my ex boyfriend. But I totally ignored my Intuition. The moment he told me, "if I ever stop making you happy, just tell me and I will leave. " The very first thing I thought to myself was, I'm Already happy and I'm the one responsible for my happiness. needless to say, after 5 months, it was over. I'm thankful for the lesson and look forward to meeting my lifetime romantic partner soon. Thank you!
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
You're welcome. xo
Paloma Verissimo (2 years ago)
You make me addicted to your videos Bern! Love this one <3
Bernardo Mendez (2 years ago)
Love you Paloma, thank you for your enthusiasm and kindness always. xo

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