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How to gain control of your free time | Laura Vanderkam

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There are 168 hours in each week. How do we find time for what matters most? Time management expert Laura Vanderkam studies how busy people spend their lives, and she's discovered that many of us drastically overestimate our commitments each week, while underestimating the time we have to ourselves. She offers a few practical strategies to help find more time for what matters to us, so we can "build the lives we want in the time we've got." TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and much more. Find closed captions and translated subtitles in many languages at http://www.ted.com/translate Follow TED news on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/tednews Like TED on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TED Subscribe to our channel: http://www.youtube.com/user/TEDtalksDirector
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Ahmet Emir Akbulut (3 days ago)
Then that means I have a lot of time😁
Shreya Sharma (5 days ago)
One of the best I've heard in a while
Kasper Ottenbreit (5 days ago)
She looks like Mac demarco
Catarina P (6 days ago)
"they found that people claiming 75-plus-hour work weeks were off by about 25 hours" are you talking about me?
Mihir Thacker (6 days ago)
Save your time = Watch this video at 1.5times the original speed
AKILESH J S (6 days ago)
Boring
Bashar Abdullah (7 days ago)
"You say you're working more than 60 hours, well are you sure?" Rockstar Games: Hold my beer!
Noel Go (8 days ago)
a mistranslation in korean not "저는 가끔 잡지사로부터 어떤 기사에 관해 취재 요청을 받습니다. " but rather "저는 종종 이러한 주제로 기사를 쓰는 잡지사들에 관해 듣곤합니다." you're welcome.
Kayla Echols (10 days ago)
For once, I watched the ad - and I'm glad!
Alex Greenwood (11 days ago)
I'm sorry, but no. If you work eight hours a day and sleep for eight hours, that leaves you eight hours a day during the week for the following: washing, dressing, cooking, eating, commuting, shopping, tidying, cleaning, laundry, exercise, repair work and a social life. It sounds like a lot, but it really isn't. If you have a two hour round commute, you immediately drop to six hours a day: say, two in the morning and four in the evening. This is how people find their weekends end up full of drudge work. And you can pretty much forget it if you have children under 5. I do wish these people would be honest about their resources. Do they have nannies, cleaners, house keepers, gardeners, PAs? It's far easier to find time for things when you have outsourced any domestic work and four of your six children are at schools with significant after-school programmes. It's just not honest.
FlyExplo (12 days ago)
time is based on speed and space. we used to say I am 50 years old or he 38 year old. actually how he can calculate his time. it's sound I think not perfect. as my thought, no one can calculate human lifetime. there is no machine to calculate human lifetime. we calculate earth time. after we born earth passes 30 years this sounds perfect
Shubhi (15 days ago)
Well maybe you have a lot of time, but you also need to do energy management which is the harder part. You can't work or do something throughout the day without breaks.
Emrah ateş (15 days ago)
bir yorum yazayım da Türkler Ted konuşması izlemiyor gibi olmasın :)
Stepan Zarubin (18 days ago)
They key of this video is that we always find time for URGENT things. Try avoid URGENT by taking care about it beforehand, and define priorities for other things similarly, if we really need something then it is URGENT and we'll find time for it.
Elissa Lim (18 days ago)
Well, watching this Ted Talk definitely wasn't a waste of time :)
MusicFan (18 days ago)
I like the content of her talk, her delivery of puns or jokes needs work - she should take time to improve on that
MaximeLT (19 days ago)
So American ..... Big effects for such an useless message ... “you have time, you just have to prioritize”. Really ?
Sami 99 (20 days ago)
i think i've a crush on her
하라 (21 days ago)
I had 30 days of vacation but I was really lazy.I went  to bed at 3am and woke up at 11am:-(I wasted my timeI had a lot of time but I didn't do anything.But I learned something very important for my whole life."Doing nothing in free time makes me crazy."From this year I will be very busy .A lot of homeworks and bunch of tests.....so this vacation was my last vacation  before I become adult.So I decided to think positively.I enjoyed my free time.I realized that I wasted my time(very thankful to know this) and now I'm trying to do something.I just don't want to make same mistake on next vacation so I'm writting this.
Chew Jun Han (22 days ago)
I love this. thank YOU
Nemencio Enriquez (23 days ago)
Me
Jisha Sen (24 days ago)
Nice talk. I needed to hear this.
MsXsavi (25 days ago)
Exactly! That's what I mean! I'm fed up with people who keep repeating they don't have time...
britishav8tor75 (26 days ago)
her argument about 7 hrs and the water heater is utterly flawed! she doesnt mention how that lady came up with that 7 hours, what things she did without or neglected for that time period. Also the water heater was an emergency, teaching people or training isnt. As soon as I saw the ted women logo I should have left !
Rahul Gautam (27 days ago)
BY NOT WATCHING THE VIDEO!! P.S - I seriously didn't!!
Wilder Francis (27 days ago)
Amazing
livestrong296 (28 days ago)
Ok Heather graham
Curious_Di (30 days ago)
"time is a choice" - i couldn't agree more. its really a matter of self discipline.
Adam S (1 month ago)
Sort your Priorities moral of story what we were taught as kids, way back in the farm. if modern man need a ted talk to know this, we have to rethink our child upbringing and education systems
LazyCrazyCat2 (1 month ago)
The same could be said for money.
Julia Kaltenböck (1 month ago)
It's friday afternoon 😬
Audrey Toth (1 month ago)
Ironically watching this instead of editing/finishing the essay I have due tomorrow
kalmunga (1 month ago)
Anyone notice the female majority audience?
phuc gaming tran (1 month ago)
Wow , this is so helpfull , i learn alot of english , tks very much
NDN (1 month ago)
AMAZING
Kaitlyn Kennedy (1 month ago)
am I the only one considering sending this to a S/O who “doesn’t have time” to hang out or call? ☺️
Mariam Marello (1 month ago)
what does she mean by " dust my blinds"?
Pazgon lol (1 month ago)
Pretty sure she means cleaning the dust off the window blinds.
于浩 (1 month ago)
I'm watching this video because I'm procrastinating.
Thank you. I get that Laura. So pleased I took a little break to watch you. As I really get that idea so deeply I felt emotional at the end. So Thank you, you will make my goals easier and help me eliminate some bad habits. Cheers Peter
Anson Lam (1 month ago)
Wonderful idea! It helps a lot. Thanks Laura!
eastcoast (1 month ago)
This is very true and is all about perspective change which is very important, However, I think a big issue is also not having the energy to do the things you want to do even if you know you have the time. Okay, work takes 8 hours out of your day which leaves time for other things but how much of your energy is spent on that? It must be a combination of time and energy that allows you to do these things, not just time.
Alice (1 month ago)
Best Ted talk I’ve ever heard. Information only on topic & very good presentation skills of a speaker. Bravo!👏🏻
Sheri Kwong (1 month ago)
This ties in with being a yes man and how it wastes your time.
Karan Gill (1 month ago)
best ted talk i hv ever seen.....
2017. When women on Ted talked about interesting and helpful things and not about discrimination and other political stuff.
Rina Quartz (1 month ago)
that thing about the DVR... I speed up YouTube videos so I can watch more of them in less time lmao
Sayyar Awais (1 month ago)
Wait 40 hrs a week And 50 hours a sleep in 168 hrs We have 72 hours to do other things Are u assuming that we wake up and the next second We are at work ? I mean how about the hrs that take us to shower, get ready, commute to work, come back, have dinner, some entertainment and sleep
Rik Wichers (1 month ago)
Very inspiring! Like the 3 category approach 😊
Julia Mastouri (1 month ago)
"she found 7 hours in her week" - yes maybe she took some hours off and has you work more hours next week? maybe she is sleep deprived? maybe she skipped her work out to fix her heater? none of it is good.
Baggio Wong (1 month ago)
Wow! What an eloquent speaker 😲
Anna Butler (1 month ago)
She is soo right!
Ali Abdul-Kareem (1 month ago)
well despite how funny this was, it was really impressive how the fact only the priorities always have the time for it. thx
HarDiMonPetit (1 month ago)
The time that you control is therefore not free anymore. QED
Mr. Fülöp (1 month ago)
95% I agree BUT did you substracted the time we spend in traffic? Where I leave people spend a lot of time in traffic...
이용은 (1 month ago)
I'm not busy and I have alot of time. If I have a free time, I play with my brother. I didn't know that small time can be powerfull. So insted of playing with my brother, I'll study math or learn spanish and do somthing like that.
Leo Viegas (1 month ago)
Playlist suggestions: *talks to watch when you don't know what to do with your life*
Esco (1 month ago)
I lost 12 minutes watching this video which lead me to miss my exam which means I’ve lost a year at school which means I’ve lost 10 years of going to school. 12 minutes ha.
John McCabe (1 month ago)
The woman who 'found' 7 hours to deal with the flood crisis - the logic - 'Well, if you can find 7 hours that week, why not use 7 hours every week to train for a triathlon?'. OK, but to deal with that crisis she may have cancelled time with friends, helping her kids with their homework etc. So yes, she could do the same every week and train for a triathlon - BUT SHE WOULD END UP WITH NO FRIENDS AND HATED BY HER KIDS (with amazing abs to console her).
Lulla C (1 month ago)
I just wrote a very similar feedback. It makes all busy people look like flakes who can't get their priorities straight and waste time doing god knows what.
KathySolita (1 month ago)
Exactly!! Also she might have pushed some of the duties for that week for the next week; but that doesn't mean she can do that every week
Ligeia D.Aurevilly (1 month ago)
You are absolutely right, John. Life is about choices. You can't have it all
Luka Muren (1 month ago)
Busy women... lol. Undercover feminism
Shravan K (1 month ago)
I liked the talk but I also feel like there is nothing new in this talk. She is not saying anything new that all the other so-called motivational gurus are saying already. Calling herself a time management "expert" is slightly bothering me. Man, these misleading "how to" ted titles must go away. Again, not saying the talk is bad, she is definitely a good speaker but I think it needs a more clear demonstration of the "how" part.
Schoeib Mokhles (1 month ago)
Thank you for captions in Persian! Greetings from Afghanistan
Jose J (1 month ago)
"Watch less tv" oh okay *turns off tv goes away*
Maxi Wu (1 month ago)
The idea is to become a machine and do not live like a human.
Nhung Nguyen (1 month ago)
The message I get is to get the best of anything you are doing with your time. If you are working, then work effectively; if you are resting, let your mind totally rest; if you are spending time with your family and beloved ones, either eating, playing, having fun with them, make every minute counts by caring, loving them. And even if you are on Youtube, you watch these videos on purposes, either you have fun or you are here to gain knowledge. So, it's another way of saying: "be present" & "be purposeful". Thank Ted and Laura for reminding me of that.
Keithprestige (1 month ago)
Wake up at 4am
T.K. (1 month ago)
I knew this info sounded familiar .. finished watching the vid , scrolled down to the comment section & see I’ve put a thumbs up on some already . haha , I guess I needed a refresher b/c I’m still wasting freaking time * facepalm *
Kaustubh jumle (1 month ago)
Nice
babu babu (1 month ago)
What a good speech I had watch! Funny and full of information. Liked 👍
Anand Sanglikar (1 month ago)
Nicely said & focussed on many problems in life Worldwide👌👌 Specially discussed on Women's problems unseen by Us ie Men👍👍👌👌👌👌बहुत ही अच्छी क्लिप है।
River Song (1 month ago)
I love how commanding her voice it
Question's World (2 months ago)
We are Indians, please add Hindi subtitles
jayesh pawar (2 months ago)
Stop watching youtube 😑
Szniket (2 months ago)
She's annoying
خالد د (2 months ago)
6
Varun Kumar (2 months ago)
Save your time don't watch this video
Rakesh Shah (2 months ago)
good evening like your guidance heartily
Roswitha Herman (2 months ago)
Thanks for sharing! This video was very helpful
Jaya Pandey (2 months ago)
Really distracting teeth
Calvin Huang (2 months ago)
she is really articulate and funny! i love her
Julita Sari (2 months ago)
I always watching ted in the morning, to motivition everyday
Ananya Sharma (2 months ago)
I love her accent
허회진 (2 months ago)
good
THEETHAT ANURAKSOONTORN (2 months ago)
This women studied economics
Elliot Curry (2 months ago)
3:19 :)
Joe H (2 months ago)
How should I spend my over abundance of free time?
Tamás Czéh (2 months ago)
TED talk videos are on my daily to do list to improve myself in english, nice to hear interesting things about thiese topics.
Archie Andrews (2 months ago)
I didnt understand this video until my water heater actually broke and I had to spend 3k replacing it :(
Hamza Latif (2 months ago)
If family-dinner is out because of your crazy work schedule, maybe family-breakfast could be a good substitute.
Melissa Tang (2 months ago)
For example if u have a supermarkt from 7am till 11am from monday to sunday, thats a 112hours a week for work and 8 hours for sleeping /day ,its 56hours a week, total 168hours Where u find time for other thing😂 Maybe sleep less or shorten working hours
정수정 (2 months ago)
Why did people laugh at her saying 6:25 ?
random name (3 months ago)
not very engaging
Lennart OtW (3 months ago)
Just read the stuff that Seneca wrote back then about the time
Anushka Giri (3 months ago)
Fantastic
Sara Ilyas (3 months ago)
How can someone dislike this?
Carolyn (3 months ago)
How to gain control of your free time: scroll through the comment section!
aryan Yadav (3 months ago)
My getaway is I don't have time = it's not a priority
Hương Quỳnh Huỳnh (3 months ago)
This reminded me of the quote "I don't have time for you because you're not my priority" (:
Robin Roy (3 months ago)
Great information
Ivana Milojevic (3 months ago)
Such a powerful message conveyed in such a simple way.
Angad Katdare (3 months ago)
Step 1: Watch this video at 2x

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